"He Works Hard For the Money"

I get very annoyed when people say "Oh, he's rich... that's why you like him." It bothers me because people are just so caught up in money. Maybe they say it because it's a combination of that and jealousy. If they had money then maybe girls would like them (it's usually guys that say this).

I guess when a guy has money, people automatically assume that's the only reason to like him.

Anyway, I suppose I don't care too much what people say, but what bothers at all is not the fact that they think I'm superficial... but rather they're not giving my fiance enough credit. For who he is, his intellect and everything he's achieved on his own. Many assume that if one's parents had (or have money), they are automatically spoiled and/or stupid. But I know and as my title suggests, he has worked very hard his entire life and he should reap the benefits of doing so.

But... while I'm on the subject of money, I still don't understand men and their priorities. I was thinking of making or buying a recipe book. I looked some up and there is a cute one on amazon for $20. I was going to buy it but I was told by my husband that it was too expensive. Meanwhile he went to Miami last weekend for a bachelor party. That includes: flight to Miami, hotel in Miami, eating out in Miami and going out drinking with the boys for two nights in Miami!! Sigh. I'll never understand.